I do more than half of my internetting from my phone, that being said I can't see the videos posted on this site, didn't know if that would be something that could be done easily
Flashplayer had some sort of major update recently, I had to get a new driver/upgrade to my existing flashplayer for anything from youtube to work about a month ago.
You can find the info on any related droid forum.. but honestly.. Verizon is sending out the OTA update to Froyo 2.2 this week to Droid users. Though I don't know if it will include Adobe's flash player.. if it doesn't you will be able to install it once your phone has been updated to 2.2.
I just don't want to be responsible for you bricking your phone...