My MIL just totaled her new 2017 Suby and she was fine... hit her knee on something. But still able to walk fine.
Good for her...well the being safe part.
My wife has been looking at all different types of suv's to include the Suby.
All I can say is the Suby is half the cost of a Lexus GX or new Tahoe and the Suby's hold up well mechanically.
I'd bet the Subaru has a higher resale % than those and a higher safety rating.
Guy at my work who got a Subaru Legacy when I got my Impreza just traded it in for a Forester. He couldn't stand the stiff/harsh ride of the Legacy (all their cars are stiff including mine IMO) and was racking up miles driving to Boston every other week. Only other SUV he test drove was the Lexus and he said it drove like Poo. I remember when he bought the Legacy he initially wasn't happy with it being plane jane, but once he saw the price and ride difference ha came back to Subaru and got an even more plane jane Forester. He's a salesman so he was looking to impress clients, but got over that stigma especially when he got a smoking deal on a 2107 they used as their service loaner car.